It amazes me that most people have no idea of the real reason that they don’t like me; in fact, they have no idea of any “real” reasons why they don’t like me! It’s pretty simple really; there are not enough good reasons to like me. There are only bad reasons. And if you go out and try to find some good reasons why someone doesn’t like me, you will quickly discover that none of them actually make any sense.
Instead, pick one from the list below, and apply it to your life today: Then ask yourself, why don’t people like me, and then begin to practice it in your life. Choose some new behaviors to develop such as constantly being generous to those you love, listening more closely to the things that interest you, or developing a habit of daily self-care. Ask yourself what you can personally do right now to begin building a new positive habit.
Most people who do not like me don’t understand this one reason that I often tell them: “Why do people not like me?” If they can’t answer that question with a yes, then I know that they are holding themselves back because they don’t like me. Here’s the deal though, when you start appreciating and believing the things about yourself that you’re truly good at, you’ll start attracting more people to yourself. And when you start to attract more people to yourself, you’ll also start to attract more people to the world around you too.
So what do you need to do to start believing in yourself more? First, become more grateful and thankful for everything that you do and everyone else allows you to experience. You have to internalize it before you can even speak to another person with confidence. When you want something bad enough, you’ll push through the barriers of doubt and fear and get what you want. However, if you allow doubt and fear to keep you from doing what you truly want to do, then you’ll never be able to achieve it. You need to change your mindset and develop a mindset of never giving up or of never having any doubts.
Another reason why people don’t like me is that they think I’m irresponsible: that I let things happen that they shouldn’t. The truth is that things usually happen for a reason. It may be that you didn’t know how to handle something or you didn’t have the information or support that someone else had available to them. You have to learn how to handle these things differently than what you’ve always learned how to do.
Your reasons for doubting your abilities: are only going to keep growing as time goes on. Don’t believe what people say about you, don’t sit in quiet despair and think that you’re untrustworthy or unprofessional. Instead, act responsibly, work hard, support those who need it, and always believe that things will turn around for you.
It’s always going to take some effort, but when it comes right down to it, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Why don’t you do something about it?