We all know that when a boy and girl meet for the first time, they will fall in love very fast. It might take them anywhere between a few weeks to a year to decide whether they like each other or not. Sometimes, they will try to convince each other to get into a relationship. But, sometimes the guy doesn’t seem to be interested in a relationship and the girl keeps trying to get him to agree to it.
Let’s assume that you are the one who is doing the chasing. Why are you doing this? Is it because you want to get into a relationship? If yes, then stop this. He will never agree to it.
But if you want to know why a boy doesn’t want to get into a relationship with you, then here are some reasons that will let you know.
He thinks he is too old for you
There are boys who think that if they start a relationship with you, they will lose their career. Or, he thinks that you are not mature enough. Either of these thoughts is wrong.
If you are a good student, if you have good personality and if you are independent and self-sufficient, then you can easily talk to your parents and tell them that you want to get married.
He thinks he is not good enough for you
If you think that you can’t make someone happy, then you are not wrong. You need to accept the fact that you are not good enough for the person you want to be with.
A man is not the reason for a girl to live. You can be with a boyfriend for a month, a year or even for your entire life. The only thing that matters is how much you two love each other.
He has not reached the age where he wants to settle down
Some people think that it is not fair to get into a relationship before they are 18 years old. You need to understand that everyone is different and you are not the same as everyone else.
There are some people who are ready to get into a relationship even at a young age. So, if a guy thinks that he is not ready, then you should respect his decision.
He likes you as a friend
Some guys have good friends and they have no interest in getting into a relationship. They like you as a friend and nothing more. If this happens, you should understand that you are not his girlfriend and he just wants to be your friend.
Conclusion: In conclusion, I would say that it is not your mistake to chase a boy and if he doesn’t want to get into a relationship, then you shouldn’t be disappointed. As we all know that a relationship is a lifelong commitment. So, you need to accept it and move on.