You may not agree, but the fact of the matter is that many men find it very hard to deal with their sudden loss of their sex drive, especially when this happens while they are still in the early stages of their life. It can be very embarrassing for a man to suddenly have to deal with his loss of sexual interest in his partner, especially if his loss of interest was sudden. When you notice your sex drive has gone down suddenly, try not to take it too personally. While it might indeed be a sign that something else has gone wrong, such as stress, food cravings or a variety of other reasons, there is no need to panic. In fact, you have to learn how to stop being so horny.
One of the best ways to make sure that your loss of sexual energy: does not become an unmanageable situation is by doing some simple things. A great way to put your mind at ease and to also help you overcome your sudden loss of interest in sex is to make yourself more relaxed. If you ever find yourself becoming stressed out and tensed up at all times, this is definitely not going to do you any good. Try to find something to do that will make you relaxed, such as listening to music, taking a relaxing bath, reading a book, enjoying the sun on a beach or just talking to someone. These things are all great ways to make yourself relax.
Next, you can try to figure out why you have suddenly lost your horniness: It may not be because you became stressed out or it may not be because of food cravings. You have to be able to pinpoint the real cause for your recent loss of sexual urges. You can do this by trying to think back to the last time you got turned on. Did something happen that made you feel extremely horny?
If you cannot pin down the exact reason: that you became overly horny or frustrated, then it is best if you consider eliminating all possible causes until you actually get the problem. One way of eliminating sexual frustration and hunger is to masturbate. You can either do this manually using a sex toy or with a strap on device that will make you put your legs behind your head and your hands behind your back so you are literally giving yourself a cold shower. This will instantly help to relieve your sexual tension and even your frustration. After doing this several times, you will realize that you no longer have any sexual tension or frustration and you will be able to focus on solving the real problem that is causing you to lose your hard-on.
Lastly, sometimes our bodies are like muscles and when they ache: that is a sign that it is time to flex them. Stop trying to figure out what it is that is wrong with you, and just start fixing it. Stop thinking about being too hard on yourself and stop obsessing over the little things that you may have done wrong. You need to learn to trust your body instead of being suspicious that there might be something wrong with it because you are constantly concerned with whether you are feeling horny or not. If your body is hurting, then you are too hard on it and that is a bad thing and you need to relax and trust that it is going to get better. It may take some time to figure out what is really going on but believe me, it will get better and you will feel better in time.
So, if you want to know how to stop being horny: then you need to learn how to read your own body and figure out what is triggering your urges and what is making you feel good. Once you understand this, then you can eliminate the causes of your urges and concentrate on solving the problem that is causing you to lose your hard-on.
There is nothing wrong with being hard on yourself, so long as you are not hurting yourself and you are solving the problem. When you follow these three easy steps, then you can start to feel better soon.